I also wonder if it was just an EA and he is not realizing it counts as an A. Either that, or he is in total mourning and outward denial of the A. It is entirely possible that he will talk about it someday. But I think it will be when he is ready, not when you want him to.
Unfortunately, he is going to need a certain level of comfort and confidence that it will not start an argument in order for him to talk about these more sensitive issues.
He doesn't yet understand.
Will you be patient with him? Will you give him some time and guidance?
I know you are tired.
What's going on with counseling? Do you have more appointments scheduled?
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