honestly lwb, my ONLY care as to what H thinks or feels about his stuff being packed away is that he'll think I'm closing the door for good. That is why I'm not saying anything to him. As I said before. I do not want to cause him any anger, fear, guilt. Nothing. I only NEED to do this for ME. Period. Not even really concidering how he'll feel/react. Doesn't matter. Accept for the thought above.


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!