honestly lwb, my ONLY care as to what H thinks or feels about his stuff being packed away is that he'll think I'm closing the door for good. That is why I'm not saying anything to him. As I said before. I do not want to cause him any anger, fear, guilt. Nothing. I only NEED to do this for ME. Period. Not even really concidering how he'll feel/react. Doesn't matter. Accept for the thought above.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!