PB, First -- DO NOT let your D see the OW. Without exception. Get on the phone to an atty immediately and put it in writing. Not acceptable. There is no good reason that your child should have to deal with that. Your h and OW are trying to play house and be cute showing off each other kids. 2nd -- this OW is MARRIED? Did you expose to OWH?? How dare she bring her child from her married household to meet your H. Do you know anything about her, name, where she lives. The A is very exciting because it is not exposed. Does his family know what he is doing?? Time to get on the phone and let them know that your H is having an A. Once the ugliness comes out in the open it takes away the thrill. Just because your H does not live with you does not give him the right to take your D around her. Not acceptable. I am sure the OW H would love to know what is going on. keep us posted.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09