i think she is definitely crazy and he knows it. i wonder if that is part of the hold up on him permanently ending it.
I think most of the OW's are kind of crazy. Normal people don't have affairs with married men.
I don't know if this is true or not, but I've read some here have said when the OW is acting like that it's usually a sign that there is problems in their A or the OW feels like she is losing control or the A is ending. If the OW was confident and happy, she wouldn't be acting like that. So the fact the OW is acting like that is maybe a good thing in a way???
You have enough problems you can focus on I think, your finances, your M, etc. and maybe try to focus on that instead of the crazy OW. Can't really make her normal, so just try to ignore her as much as possible if you can. Karen