Hi (((Julia)), Sorry to hear you are having a rough time of it. I totally understand. I feel much like you when I feel betrayed & I'm not a very open or friendly person myself.
My thoughts, I wouldn't add "to come to a quick decision about it". Fact is, if you are going to loose money then YOU DON'T HAVE TO SELL, whether he wants to or not. This is your life, do what's best for you, not what he wants or is best for him. Also, I would stress these important decisions should be discussed in person. If he doesn't want to - then it's his problem. I wouldn't let him hide behind email or text. Hhhmmm, my email is beginning to sound a bit pissed .. well, I am at your H!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)