Being grateful for normalcy.......................

[brandnewday]

So, through DB-ing we have learned how to be independent and not to be needy and not to be controlling and not to "Mother" our Husbands.

So here is the problem.

My Husband has gained quite a bit of weight. He is actually about 30 pounds overweight, and his blood pressure is high.

I cook healthy meals, he has a gym membership, I bought vitamins.

I have given the schpiel of how his Dad died of Diabetes and I am worried about him. That I have worked my arse off to get our Marriage back on track and I am not going to lose my Husband again to some illness.

He doesn't want to go to the Doctor.

He said he is working on it.

I do not want to nag.

He is alone all day as the kids are in school and I am at work.
As he works from home, nobody is here to monitor the fridge, or trips to McDonalds.

Any advice???