Have a appointment with my Coach tonight. Have a few issues to work on. 1) When to contact X, and if I should? This is the longest we have gone with out talking, two weeks. I have no idea why she stopped. Have been reading a lot into it but thats just me. Would love to know what is going on in her mind. 2) What signs do I need to show me its time to move on? Is it going to be a gut feeling on my part or some 2x4. I still have plenty of hope that we can make it work. I feel that somehow her heart needs to be softened to love me again. Maybe that will come in time. 3) When to start dating? This is a tough on for me. I have been hanging out with some friends as a group. There are a couple gals that I would like to take out if appropriate. Do I risk alienating X or would this be a GAL thing that shows I can go on with out her. Don't want to but I know thats a strong possiblity. 4) What things can I do to "win" her back? I am doing a ton of GAL, trying like hell to PMA. Praying more than I ever have in my life. Dress nice, smell great, am happy when I am out, going to take guitar lessons, start a martial art class and learn to scuba. I may have time for her if she wants:) Any ideas, comments, thoughts? B
