(((Ali))) that is so helpful, I will think about it tomorrow and see what my options are. Thanks so much!
(((Mishka))) I know, he can't initiate divorce anyway before 2 years he has no reson to divorce me! i.e. infidelity etc. I am going to think about my options very a seriously over the next couple of months. This is dragging me down so much. There is a lot to be said for taking things a step at a time but there is also a lot to be said for drawing out the agony. Why can I not just be done???!!!
(((R2C))) Thank you, I know you are right. On reflection, looking at it that way, H is just passing on estate agent info from agents who all want to sell the house as quickly as possible, they do not understand the underlying issues. I should not be so cross at him - although his ability to not think out the box is frustrating but I guess his thoughts are elsewhere at the moment. It is just so hard/hurtful.
I will text him tomorrow I thought I would say
'I got email, thanks for the info. Shall we meet Friday lunchtime to discuss the info and next steps? I find it easier to talk face-to-face rather than by email.'
I think it may need tweaking (or does it really matter anymore??) What do you think?
