well, it seems like we are on a beter path - BUT he is not living at home yet. so, he is lying to me when he says she is out of the picture.

i think she is definitely crazy and he knows it. i wonder if that is part of the hold up on him permanently ending it.

i just dont know what to do anymore. we were once a happily married young couple with plenty of money. his "quarter life crisis" blew through our money. my house is in foreclosure(we are working with a lawyer to save it), he ran up over $100,000 in credit card debt (all in his name).

its a mess. and she isnt helping...


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09