Ms Ladybug is MOVING OUT.

[goldeylox]

Be careful ladybug.
For what it's worth, I learned something when I made my hasty departure...you can get by without a lot of your 'stuff'. Sure, there's a few things I miss, and wish I had taken, but it's really only stuff.
Nothing is as important as your safety.
A mediator may be able to help you negotiate a list and an agreeable time to gather your things.
Good luck, honey. Goldey