Life is Rough - And Really Hurts!

[1hope]

Thanks ladies, I welcome your support. Yes, too much drama for me. I guess I could write a book....but no one would believe it to be true.

I think he was calling me for another reason MT, but I diverted him to the insurance info. As soon as I got that I said bye, and hung up. I knew that he wanted to talk about something, but I don't want any part of this situation anymore.

My H had lunch with his boss yesterday....remember his boss is the OW's brother. (We have all known each other for 20+ years). Anyway, the family is talking about havings some sort of an intervention with her, because she is not facing how dangerous her H is becomming, is lying and covering up his actions etc. They do not think that he will do any harm to me, but no one is making any promises for OW or my H. I have no idea how this will all end.

I welcome thoughts and prayers.

[MT35]

WOW. Hope, I really do hope that they can get his behavior under control, that is very scary. I am sure this is making your H feel guilty even more, with all the extra issues her H is creating for you two right now. I really hope they get him some help before he hurts anyone or himself!

I am glad you were able to detour him before he could drag you into anything else. Take care Hope, and have a great day. The sun is shining here today! Hope it is in your part of the world too!

[1hope]

It is cold today and the skies are cloud covered, but still bright. The snow has stopped for the time being. We didn't get too much, just enought to make things pretty again.

My H is feeling guilty, but the situation is also giving him a chance to make his confessions and apologies. That seems to be helping his spirit. He never has been one for lying, and as I look back I can tell that the Alien visits were a result of his pain from the guilt about his A and all of the lies. I know that he understands that is when all started to go wrong. He is still defensive about WHY he had the A, but he never stops saying that it was the wrong thing to do and how he would like to be able to go back and "undo" it.

[Babygirl]

hey girl. that would freak me out the call. you handled it really good, make sure you document it tho ok? glad the snow has stopped. snow depresses me lol. its good you two are talking more. its great progress.

[1hope]

It's documented. I talked to the Sherrif's Dept. this afternoon. So now we have advised the County and the State. Both have said that he should not be contacting me. No calls from him today, so that's good.

The whole thing is just terribly sad. You're right BG, unless they both get some help I don't see it ending well.

[MT35]

Have a great evening Hope! Stay warm!

[1hope]

You too MT.

I went to the dentist, got a few groceries and have been home for a couple of hours.

I thought that H would be home by now, but he isn't. He wasn't here when I got home, and I called and left a message on his voice mail about one of our plow accounts that had called the house phone. I haven't heard from him and I am trying to decide when do I worry, and when do I call?

[WCW]

Would it be normal for him to return your call within this amount of time? did your message ask him to call you? I often have to pass messages along to my H but I don't leave it in such a way that he needs to return my call.

Do the authorities know any history between you/H and ow/H? If your letter to xow spurred owsH to try and run into your house can he claim motive?

Do take this serious and keep your eyes open! Too many times people don't take the warning signs serious until it is too late.

What do you know about salt? Can I use rock salt to keep an indoor sand arena from freezing when I water to keep the dust down? Rock salt is $5 per 60lb instead of $21 for calcium chloride.