Not sure that I am doing much for myself right now. I mean I have D7 full time so I do things with her but when she is not with me I find things to do to stay away from the house and keep myself occupied.
Haven't gone on any dates lately. Not in the mood for any of that. H thinks that I do...but that is good for him:)
I will try the weekend response you suggested this weekend and see how that works. I try real hard to keep expectations out of my head about his calling. Did real good with that this morning and guess what...he called me on the way to my job. Messed with me again about leaving so quickly from his house yesterday and he said I would probably do the same thing today. I just changed the subject again.
I had asked him yesterday if he was going to use today as his "weekday" with D7 and he really did not give me an answer. So today when I got off work I was heading to his house to pick her up and he called when I was about 2 minutes away.
I told him I was heading that way to pick her up and he said "I told you I was going to go ahead and keep her for today." NO HE DID NOT! But I remained calm and just said "ok that is cool...I can turn around and head back home."
He said "no...you might as well come by and at least say hi...besides that D7 has something she made in school that she wants you to see."
I know I shouldn't have done it but I went over there. I stayed about 20 minutes and that was it. He talked small talk and was looking at me again. So I gave D7 some love and left.
Yes he does bring D7 around OW. They have to sneak and do it though. He has a routine where he takes D7 to a specific restaraunt on either Friday or Saturday night and she will come up there to meet him.
The bad part is...she brings her H's S5 with her! Well the S5 slipped up and made a comment to OW's H and apparantely OW was able to save it and nothing came of it.
Anyhow this got me and H into a BIG fight because I told H that everytime he takes D7 around OW like that he is putting D7 at risk. Who knows what OW's H would do if he ever catches them together and he is not going to care that there is kids around.
So H has promised not let D7 and OW be in the same room together. So we will see.
