I'm here........

[SueS]

Saffie - Hi there sweetie!! I can feel you lurking!! I think about you often.

S&S- Thank you. You're not the only one that lurks. I look at your thread all the time too. I understand what you mean. At first I thought that the lying was just to me. I've come to realize that I've seen it extend to other people so it must be happening with OW too. He's got to be telling her a load of crap too or she wouldn't be sticking around. I remember OW's H telling me that he was under the impression that my H had made a lot of promises to OW. It really hurt at first. Then I stopped, stepped back and remembered......he's made a lot of promises to me and others too....and doesn't keep those. Like you said, just to keep things status quo. Can you imagine leaving your H, taking your 4 kids away with you, tearing up your family and entire life just to find out that what you thought was your dream life is nothing what you thought it would be?

SueS