Hey GG, Just catching up on your thread. Have you ever thought about lowering your expectations of him? Right now, especially if he is in MLC, you really can't expect anything of your Husband. I am glad you are communicating, and there are so many positives going on right now. Although I hate to use this expression, but count the baby steps and enjoy the progress. Things will fall into place when HE is ready. Any type of pressure will just push him away. Changes will happen when you least expect them too. And ultimately, you can't make your Husband change or to become something you want him to be. Keep plugging along......and don't forget to breathe.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.