Is this marriage right for me?

[Jamesjohn]

I'm definitely writing him a letter today letting him know in no uncertain words what i expect to change in order for us to see each other.

Any words of wisdom?

I think that writing that letter would be a great idea!

One thing that might really help is to really concentrate on how you would like your relationship to be, and not only on what you don't like about it. Write and re-write it a few times, until you think you've got it just right.

Practice here if you'd like, and we'll help see if it says what you want it to before you send it!