Counseling is good for the soul, alot of talking. Not so much doing, and really...your talking about the stuff that is going on in your life, so its like putting it under a magnifying glass.
Painting the basement is a good goal for home improvement, but does that improve yourself? Unless it is something you have been saying you would do for a while and haven't...
Look you could even do that while your son is sick, pick up supplies real quick or even start taping down there.
I know I'm a lot less blowing sunshine up your butt than others around here and I'll stop posting to you if you want, but if you want me to post to you I'll also keep it up.
So did you actually pick up the book?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
No , been home with son. Which book ? The four agreements or The Divorce Remedy ??? Actually Jack, I look forward to your posts, why would you stop...?
Because I'm not all ponies, rainbows or fluffy bunnies. : ) I don't say awwww poor you, and regardless of if your wife is in MLC I believe everyone can improve themself and should.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
Ral, Jack is right about improving yourself, and he does not hold back.I wish I could be more forthright.Self improvement is definitely a must, reading self help books, really looking inside yourself.Really being honest about your part in your situation. It is hard, but the benefits of doing it are worth the effort.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
I was just at the bookstore (picking up a copy for a friend. They had at least 20 in stock at my local borders...
GAL
1) Enjoying every moment with your children 2) Painting rooms ( turn up the music, sing and dance while doing it) Enjoy every moment of painting 3) Singing at the top of my lungs while driving to work 4) Staring in your child's eyes and enjoying that they are alive!
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
I was just wondering. Let's say that if my sitch isn't MLC, would you conduct yourself in the same fashion ??? I am Re- reading every reply in this blog and it just dawned on me, "what if I'm misreading the W " ? I really believe that my W's confusion is at least partly due to MLC and I'm working on the parts I've contributed to. Is this path that I'm on still the right one...?
