I hear you loud and clear; too bad my W doesn't! This is why I feel she just needs to experience it to know that that is not what she wants. Or maybe it really is, who knows. Unfortunately we don't have any family in the area, so it's either together or completely alone. We also have a D4, who we will share custody of, so my W will have some alone time I guess. Who knows, I am pretty confident that our life together was mostly very happy and fulfiling, so I hope she does this and gets it out of her system.
