It is just business

[mishka422]

Great advice from Ali! She's so smart and wise in that crazy real estate mess!

I want you to know that I am here to give you hugs and support no matter what you decide to do Julia. Honestly, your H is not going to initiate a D. He is avoiding having any kind of honesty not only with you but with himself. You are left in the unenviable position of having to be the only adult in your R and I'm so sorry for that. You have been very forgiving and flexible with him but all you can do now is take care of you.

I am not going to tell you to move forward and file. I'm not going to tell you to wait until he pulls his head out of his butt because, frankly, he may not ever do that. Stay married to him if you want to have that tenuous thread or D him if you want full freedom with no strings attached to you. The whole point here is, now get this.......THE CHOICE IS YOURS

How's that? You do what you need to do and we will all be here to hold your hand and give you hugs as often as possible.