Thank you lovely ladies for stopping by! I am home today with an ill D11. No problem- getting work stuff done from here.
W took S14 (his B'day today) to another city for a hockey game (to watch tonight, not play). Before they left, here is the conversation with S14 listening (as recorded...):
W: (slightly inaudible) Can you go on the computer and transfer cash so S14 and I can have some.
Me: There is no cash to transfer.
(Inaudible portions - essentially W says there is cash, Lost says you wrote a $2000 cheque and cleared out the cash, account is in overdraft)
W: I told you I was writing a $2000 cheque to cover off my credit card for expenses when D16 and I were in LA. You were aware of that.
Me: and how much were you reimbursed for that?
W: Nothing - that is D16's and my expenses.
Me: and how much were you reimbursed for that?
W: Nothing - that is D16's and my expenses. Do you want to see my credit card? (inaudible portion) All I am saying is give me some money so that I can take us to other city and we can have something to eat.
Me: just use the credit card
W: no I am not putting it on my credit card.
Me: there is no cash
W: you have got thousands of dollars in your account, from your - your - in your bank account from your income and you job so don't give me that chit.
Me: there isn't thousands of dollars.
W: well there is money in your account so transfer it. We need some money to go to other city.
Me: you have an account as well.
W: Lost, this is family expenses
Me: and you can contribute to that as well
W: no I don't and I never have and I never will. You pay me for my job to stay at home. This is my full time job. What I do over and above that obviously is going to be my money. But my job currently is a stay at home mom which was mutually agreed upon by both of us. Therefore I am entitled to your income as well. So please put some money in that account so S14 and I can eat.
Me: If I had money to put ...
W: Lost, don't give me that chit. You know damn well how much money you make.
Me: Yeah I do.
W: I don't believe this
(rest inaudible due to background noise)
So - what could I have done better folks? Should I really care anymore? I know, a question that only I can answer.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
