I am very envious of you. My W is calling D17 almost every weeknight to come over and spend time with her. D17 never seems overwhelmed when I pick her up. she was cranky when I took her over today. she didn't have school due to storm. I am thinking D17 is going over because her mom wants her too, not because she wants to. Hard to say. Not looking to hard at the relationship, just D17's attitude.