Counseling is good for the soul, alot of talking. Not so much doing, and really...your talking about the stuff that is going on in your life, so its like putting it under a magnifying glass.
Painting the basement is a good goal for home improvement, but does that improve yourself? Unless it is something you have been saying you would do for a while and haven't...
Look you could even do that while your son is sick, pick up supplies real quick or even start taping down there.
I know I'm a lot less blowing sunshine up your butt than others around here and I'll stop posting to you if you want, but if you want me to post to you I'll also keep it up.
So did you actually pick up the book?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK