Sometimes its my life I can't taste

[Sugar and Spice]

Well kids heres an update. After much soul searching and weighin options and other stuff I have decided that if nothing has changed, meaning there are still 3 people in my M, I am filing for divorce on April 1, 2009. Why that date? First: I think its funny. Two: that will be the 18 mo. mark. Three: I'm ready to move forward and it will either be with or without my H.

I have told my H and true to form he really didn't have much of a response, but I didn't really phrase it in a manner that required a response or reaction. I also let him know that if he tried to ask for more time that would only expidite the process as I would go that day to do it. He has said more than once that even if that was what he wanted he "couldn't" say it and the only thing he said today was, "If I decide to do something else I will let you know, but if that is what I want I probably just won't say anything at all." My only response was, "duly noted."

Not a big deal, but its time for SOMEONE to do something and since I can only control me, that is what I choose. This wasn't given as an ultimatum or anything, it was more of a statement of what could be expected and the timeline for it if the situation continues in the current state. Just thought I'd let you all know.