I just got off the phone with H. He is complaining about S17 not doing what he has asked, and I told him that I have been working with S17 and he is feeling very rebellious toward H right now, but I have seen some improvement and I am concerned that pushing him too hard right now is not the answer. I'm afraid I didn't do very good DB'ing, as I got a little angry and told him that he was the one that walked away, so he doesn't see how S17 is really doing, and part of the reason he walked away is he said he didn't want to deal with this stuff, so I told him he does not get to phone his complaints in! And I got weepy as I said it (I hate it when the water works start!! I know H sees that as weak!) I know.....let the 2x4s fly!
H wants to take S17 off our car insurance. He says it's as a "punishment" to S17, but really it's the money now that H has taken over the bills. I disagree with that because S17 does have drive places that I send him occaisionally. I told H that I would talk to C about it today.
I am sure hoping that things get better when S17 and I are in the new place. Hopefully it will take the pressure off.
Thanks again for your encouragement. (((((hugs)))))
TJ
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