I absolutely feel like I am "stuck in the middle" between H and our kids. In front of the kids I have always tried "provide a united front", even though I have definitely not always agreed with H's methods.
I have also tried to help the kids understand that their Dad loves them and means well, but now after everything he's done, they think my love is blind and H is basically just a jerk.
The really sad part is that H doesn't even seem to care.
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd