Oh, no Pup--the convo was on Saturday, Max was on Sunday. The past few days have been back in the routine--which I greatly needed. I'm doing so much better being back at work (weird, isn't it?) And y'all gave me such entertainment and interaction last night! Don't feel like a cad at all--you're a significant source of support (and now, hope!) to me.

I love this--
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the A-hole Witch-humper.
While I was spewing at him on Saturday (no, I don't do this often, and haven't since probably July) I did ask him if he expected Wicca Woman to stand at his side once he was ordained an Episcopal priest.

I do seriously worry about D. This is such a critical time in her emotional development relationally, and we all know that girls who feel lacking in their relationships with their dads tend to compensate in their future romantic relationships, and don't choose wisely. He is in such denial and self-justification that he blows that off, but he's the only one who can "fix" it. She is SO good at expressing her feelings (comes from having 2 parents in our particular helping professions, I think) and so intuitive--as well as being so easy to please. It really isn't hard. But all he sees is that I "poisoned" her against him and brainwashed her into thinking that he left us for OW. Ummmm--that's pretty much the truth. And I didn't tell her that; I didn't have to, she figured it out herself.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012