Hey guys...thanks. Im glad Im not hanging on his every word this time. Today he seems to be having a down day. Not sure why. He said nothing is wrong. But I know there is.
I had a very awkward moment last night. I was at the grocery store and for the first time in 2 years since this all began, I ran into the xOW. It was very hard to avoid it since we were practically in touching distance. I couldnt pretend like I didnt see her. So, I decided to do what I felt would be best and I looked at her and said "hey ow" She looked at me as if she couldnt believe I said anything to her. Then she replyed "hey how u doing"....I said nothing and kept on walking.
Talk about weird. But I think I handled it very well. I really would have like to accidently run her over with my cart....lol, but I didnt.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
They say grocery stores is where you meet people! I was in a town out of my normal routine for a doctor appt just over a year ago. I stopped at the grocery store in the middle of the day to grab a few things and sure enough....there she was!
You did much better than I did. I turned my cart around and darted around avoiding ow. I don't think I would have been as gracious as you were.
You did a nice job.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
EEEEEKKKKKK!!!!! My greatest fear! Every time I drive into the next town where "they" live I start to have panic attacks because I might run into them.
You did a fabulous job. I think just speaking up and not ignoring her probably put her a little off balance so good for you!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Thanks guys...Im sure I did throw her off quite a bit. I did tell my H about it. He didnt say much about it. I know he is very irritated by her. He sees that her words mean nothing to him now. She wants to be friends, but yet never calls or speaks to him and if she does, she gets in trouble with her new hubby. I think its a little funny. I have to recall him saying all this time that he and her would always be the best of friends....and now she hardly talks to him.
Oh well. He is very worried about his bills lately. No money to pay them. So he is down somewhat.
I have a nasty little cold this week. Very sore throat and a cough that makes it worse. I hope it gets better soon. Cuz Im not feeling the best.
Hope you all have a great day!!!!!!!!!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Oh, and honestly I can say that running into her wasnt that bad. My worst fear would have been running into her and MY HUSBAND!! SOOOO glad that never happened!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
You did fine! You should have seen me almost 4 years ago (gee, has it been that long?) when I found out. I confronted her at her office and told her to stay the you know what away from my husband and she gave me an aloof look and walked right past me. It was gross and creepy. Of course she is very creepy. My son freaked when he got to see her a year ago as we were driving home one afternoon.
I hope you get to feeling better soon.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Mishka...so glad I never had that happen. I did however see them together once when he was begging her back one day. They were in the bank parking lot and I saw them when I rode by. Made me sick to see them.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
Hello everyone...just an update. My cold is finally on its way out of my system...! Yay! I feel so much better.
Its cold here today, but not as cold as in someplaces, but still ice on the roads.
My H asked me last night again if I missed him, cuz he misses me. THings are going slow with us right now. I still havent given him an answer about if I want to do this again or not. He had a down day on Monday, so I didnt talk to him too much. I hate it when he is that way. He told me he doesnt want to talk to me too much when he is down because he may say something he may later regret.....so, I leave him alone.
Im wondering if maybe we should go to counseling together. Im not sure what to do about this. If I do decide to let him come back into this marriage, Im not sure how to go about doing it. I have just been keeping things like normal so far. I did feed him supper last night, or actually he asked.
Im not too stressed out about it. But not sure what I need to do, if things preceed the way they are going. Im worried about trusting him again, not so much about cheating on me as in him just deciding to leave again. Although he did say I would always be worried about that even if things were going great! But in my opinion, that is something I shouldnt have to really worry about. I dont know.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
