WOW. Hope, I really do hope that they can get his behavior under control, that is very scary. I am sure this is making your H feel guilty even more, with all the extra issues her H is creating for you two right now. I really hope they get him some help before he hurts anyone or himself!
I am glad you were able to detour him before he could drag you into anything else. Take care Hope, and have a great day. The sun is shining here today! Hope it is in your part of the world too!