New Year New Goals

[sandycay]

This is what I was talking about in my earlier post BBJ. Like the wise words of Kenny Rogers:

You got to know when to hold 'em
Know when to fold 'em
Know when to walk away
Know when to run

You will know by Dan's actions if he truly has come round or not. I love how you are just doing your own thing.

I know when my H "came round" I was in the place where you seem to be. I would always wonder if I did not try was that really my chance to have this marriage. But I wasn't all in at that point in time and could have survived with him or without him happily. Sure it would have hurt if he had turned to tail and run again but I had already survived to worst hurt of my life so I was ready either way.