Well, another sign that STBX is unraveling. S10 told me yesterday that he overheard STBX talking to a "woman" whose name he gave me, which is the name of the divorce mediator. He said that STBX told her: "FLTC has a new girlfriend and does not see D16 at all". S10 told me that he and D16 talked. They think it's because STBX is furious over gym woman in my life.

Is she nuts having this conversation in earshot of the kids or what? Secondly, as you recall, STBX ambushed me on Sunday morning, telling me "She had plans" and that D16 could not stay at home alone because of her anorexia binging and purging. I said "Sure, I'll take her". I called her cell twice and the home phone once to ask her to join me for the day. She never responded. STBX reminded me later in an email "Nice job as a father" and that a cause of anorexia is "absentee fathers" (The main cause is ACTUALLY controlling mothers!)