Hi Sonshyn, thanks for your kind words. My MIL is actually a lovely lady. I respect her tremendously. She went thru the same thing, her H abandoned her for another woman at work when my H was little. Then she changed career and still flourishing in her career to this day. She has tremendous strength. That's why I never thought my H would do the same thing to me because of what he went thru as a child. Also same reason why I thought she would sympathize a bit more. But...she does her best. She just wants her son to be happy. I understand that. So if he tells her that he is happier without me then she wants the best for him so that he is not in pain.
I now wonder if he will ever snap out of his fog. My faith is slipping because of the negativity. I must give this 100% to the end. I have to stay positive and think that I will pull through and at least see through to the day that he is out of his infatuation. It's way too soon to give up and hand him over. If he is out of his infatuation and thinking clearly and still think that there won't be a way for us to work on M, then I will accept defeat. But until that day, I will bide my time.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
