Trixi aka "The Pitbull who can't let go"

[NikB]

(((Trixi)))) You are most welcome! I'm glad to be able to "pay it forward" some.

I am sending you all the STRENGTH and WISDOM I possibly can - especially the STRENGTH cuz I think you already have the wisdom. It takes strength to use it, though.

SO glad the C session went as it did. At least she knows the truth. I totally agree that the betrayal's worse than the rest. I think it's the toughest part for your SS to swallow too.

I was thinking a lot about that "Idealistic" thinking after posting to you. It's a weird balance isn't it? Because SOME idealism is obviously good... "glass half full," "people are mostly good" kinda attitude, right? I can see where it really gets in the way if becomes "over-ideal" though. I think a lot of us here have that going on.

I like the C's response from your SS to your H. Much as I saw where SS was coming from I could see why/how it wasn't working. I'm glad she came up with a good response.

You'll do AWESOME tomorrow Trixi!!!

Remember what a wonderful, kind, loving, caring, strong, beautiful woman you are. Be confident, cocky even if you can pull it off , and most of all, love yourself. You'll do great!!

(and... please don't feel so "pressured" that you can't tell us if something didn't go perfectly OK?)

Even if your thread locks... I'll be thinking of you!