She has to TRY to make it work, or nothing I accomplish will be noticed, or deemed worth noticing .
for a while I deemed my D busted, H came back, but the wrong reasons, he was tired of being alone and ow had kicked him out. I gave it my ALL, I tried my best and darnest to be the best W ever! wanted to please him do anything to make him happy and constantly wondered if he was pleased... to no avail, as soon as ow peaked her head all went to hell, and to the bitter end he lyied to both of us and it ended horribly. He didnt' come back fully wanting to be with me, he never gave us a chance. I know you are looking for little signs she wants back, but trust me, it has to be more than just you doing stuff to apease her/please her, she has to want the M to work for real.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.