Hi Tx Mom, thanks for stopping by.
My understanding is collaborative law is 2 lawyers trying to come to an agreement, if they can't they can no longer represent either party.
Mediation is one attorney where everyone can come to agreement.
My H knows that my D15 will not go near OW unless to punch her in he nose. Obviously different than having little ones. I agree there should be no way your kids around that sleaze bag.
My H's spending is TOTALLY out of control. I think because he is planning on trying to get a D that I will be stuck with 1/2. I know it will be pricey getting a D but I rather give it to a L than to the OW who is a gold digger.
Another concern if H is exposed at work by myself or someone, he is out of his job and the OW. I do know I would not have to pay spousal support because of the A.
I get a headache thinking about this.
I do not want a D, I want my H back but it will be a long journey. In the end I pray that my marriage is restored. It has been 6 months since he has said I am not happy and nothing has been the same. I have been GAL and working on myself but it has been a lonely time and I do feel lost.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09