and to that i say screw it..I should not have to take it and won't..not when I'm bending...
Now THAT'S what I'm talking about... Who needs it?...
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just because I forgave her does not mean I have to take her abuse..take her jabs..take anything from her with a smile on my face..
That's right.....I couldn't agree more....
Well M, You are actually now sounding pretty healthy to me... More men on this site would feel a lot better if they would get a little "attitude" and stop trying the nice guy routine all the time. (which doesn't work anyway)....
HMMMMMM... You have what? 4, 5, women you are in contact with? Most of them calling you..( ).....
Doesn't sound like much of a problem at all to me... It is always easier to find a woman who will treat you right when they know you have other options and won't hesitate to use them.......
Sounds like you are in great shape now.......
Women are attracted to strong, decisive, confident men who won't let them walk on them. (reality)
You are now on the right track......
Who needs it?...
and when you answer back... NOT ME and I won't take it anymore...
You are on the right road.... Suddenly you will be very popular with the women....
Good Golly Miss Molly..I knew I shoulda bought Lottery Tickets..2 posts in about a weeks time from GL..
Now GL..see to me all this is a really fine line...DB'in is OK but i can see where the lines get all fuzzy and you can become a doormat..a big frinkin doormat..
I'm all about getting along to co-parent..I truly am people..I truly am..would like nothing better..does not mean I'm gonna be her friend..does not mean I'm gonna validate her bullchiit anymore..because get this...I DO NOT WANT HER BACK I would not remarry her if she were the last person on earth..if she stopped being all batchitt this second, went to counciling..got down on hands and knees and begged me to come back..well it ain't happening..simply because I know for a fact that she would revert back to what she was.....it's her history..unless you deal with past demons and put them to rest you can bet those demons will pop back up..
that may amaze some of you..hell it may scare some of you..it may mean you will now look at me differently..and that's your right..
In reality..I'm tired of being walked on..I've always lived my life by trying to treat others as I would want to be treated..well that doesn't work all the time..you have to know when to turn that on and when to turn it off..I'm finding that out pretty quick..
does this mean I'm gonna go all bad boy?? nope...just means I'm gonna call em out (her/them) when it needs to be called out..
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Suddenly you will be very popular with the women....
I am with the crazy ones for sure..I'll give ya that..
now people here want to classify me as being an asss or being wrong for feeling like she does not deserve that then have at it..you're all entitled..
I think your an ass with or without that statement...
I think you have misinterpreted what I was saying. I didnt say you were angry AT her. I just said you were angry. And you are. And.... That's ok. You have every right to be. You know damn well I am pissed as all get out with my sitch...... It's natural and FYI.. .I don't think she deserves your attention at all either.
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they don't mean chitt to me stuck in an email concerning CS..that's a jab brother..pure and simple..and if Carrie did that to you then you would fire back..ya know what would mean chittt Ian..I'll tell ya what would have some meaning..would be for her to set down and take a little responsibility..hell even if it's just 10%..even 1%..even a .1% that is batchitt...but what do I get..guilt trips..judgemental attitude...and to that i say screw it..I should not have to take it and won't..not when I'm bending...I'M BENDING...
I hate when people partially copy text so it looks like you are saying something other than what you said...dickkkkk....
I am looking at a broad perspective here. What I am saying is someday she will come to you and maybe say what you do want to hear. In time it will mean something to you because I believe someday when she wakes the F up and realizes what she pissed away, you will get that from her. Make sure your ready to hear it.
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lots of people on here are assuming that is my goal and their assumptions are not correct.
I know that from talking to you.... .but others may not have and that was my point. Getting you to fill people in on that you are not looking for Mrs... M from Tennessee... Sometimes it comes across as if you are is all..... To those who don't know your sitch anyway... I sometimes read the stuff that you and I post and feel so bad for the newbie that happens upon our threads... can you imagine??????
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and that's what I'm attempting to do..I think it may be a good idea that i don't post about my dating escapades on here as it seems what I do is not taken very well..that may be my whole problem..I post every thing and should posts bits and pieces..
SEE ABOVE COMMENT... I AGREE WHOLEHEARTEDLY
Now lose the attitude or I will drive over to middle of fricken nowhere Tennessee and whoop some redneck asssss... I have the time.....
Now lose the attitude or I will drive over to middle of fricken nowhere Tennessee and whoop some redneck asssss... I have the time..... Ian
I would pay to see that...but only if Mike will wear the T-shirt.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I am looking at a broad perspective here. What I am saying is someday she will come to you and maybe say what you do want to hear. In time it will mean something to you because I believe someday when she wakes the F up and realizes what she pissed away, you will get that from her. Make sure your ready to hear it.
and that chitt will happen when the pigs their using for that good Q in Memphis fly..
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I think you have misinterpreted what I was saying. I didnt say you were angry AT her. I just said you were angry. And you are. And.... That's ok.
well I'm not angry Ian..If I was angry brother I would not be here..I would be attempting to make her life as she knows it hell upon earth..I did angry before..it was not pleasant..
the only time I get pissed is when she wants to throw that little jab..that little guilt trip..that little innuendo..that's when I put a stop to it..quickly..because I'm not gonna take that..
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Now lose the attitude or I will drive over to middle of fricken nowhere Tennessee and whoop some redneck asssss... I have the time.....
hell..just bring it..I owe you beer anyway..what's a little drama amongst friends.
Gee then you 2 can do it in a mud hole and look like 2 pigs fightin in a gunny sack...
Let me know when so that I can find a fly by night airline that can get me down to the back woods so I can drink some cold ones and watch the 2 of you...
Gee then you 2 can do it in a mud hole and look like 2 pigs fightin in a gunny sack...
Let me know when so that I can find a fly by night airline that can get me down to the back woods so I can drink some cold ones and watch the 2 of you...
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