Puppy, I agree with you about God. I know that we are on our own time line and grow impatient but God has his own plan for us. I know we try to give God a nudge but it doesn't work that way. We work so hard trying to get our spouses back but sometimes we actually are not ready and God knows it. I have to continue on working on what I am supposed to do.

Marisol, time to DB -- help him - shine. Let him see your confidence in doing a logo. Show him that the OW is not equipped to do that. Glad to hear that the D was dismissed. whoa whoa.

Work is tough to get back into. I am really having a tough time focusing. This A at work with me there is totally disrespectful. I have made it easy for them because I still "pretend" we are together. I stopped wearing my ring as of yesterday. I can no longer lie for them. I am waiting for someone to ask me about him. It is time to be true to myself and my family and stop their actions at work. I want my husband back but I do know as long as the Ow is in the picture it won't happen. She is like his heroin. Time to detox. Pray for us.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09