Was that a speedbump or a milestone?

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Sleeper,
I guess I'd have to say that you need that counseling now. You need to go for the sake of the kids. You can't have her snapping and biting at you.

Don't bring up that she is still in love, blah blah. Go to the counseling. I think it would be good for you at this time.

She is absolutely NOT over you.