So it seems we are in the same situation. Nothing changing and our spouses still not having a clue how much this hurts us. Can't wait forever when there has been no change at all for so long. I am so sorry that you are going through having to make this awful decision too.
I've have been waiting for the holidays to be over as well. I am still confident that this is the only option left after trying so hard without a glimmer some hope left for a change. No time for reading but plenty for knitting and her shows.
Jayce is so right, you have done the right thing for trying as hard as you could. You are so strong and sometimes two people just aren't right for one another no matter how hard we try to make it so.
I wish that there was an easy way to just make things right again.
