Protect yourself financially and your assets. Do not give him one penny. He's the one that put himself in this mess. If he continues to harp on money, advise him that he needs to be directly his requests to his attorney, not you.
Keep your responses to him short and sweet and do not take his bait.
He's having a bit of a reality check, but please do not let your guard down one minute.
I feel like he is harassing me...or even mentally abusing me over this money stuff.
I keep remembering what I've told...he can't keep coming to me as if I am 'mom' to ask for money.
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home