This is what I am trying VERY hard to do...

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Protect yourself financially and your assets. Do not give him one penny. He's the one that put himself in this mess. If he continues to harp on money, advise him that he needs to be directly his requests to his attorney, not you.

Keep your responses to him short and sweet and do not take his bait.

He's having a bit of a reality check, but please do not let your guard down one minute.



I feel like he is harassing me...or even mentally abusing me over this money stuff.

I keep remembering what I've told...he can't keep coming to me as if I am 'mom' to ask for money.


Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home