Wife have moved out with my son..........now what

[nw626]

Hi V
I am doing pretty good.
I've been pretty busy at work, so it helps me focus.
Now a days, I got my routine down pretty good.
Take by boxer to the doggie park when I got off work.
Go to local boys and girls club couple days a week to help the kids out.
Spend couple hours in the gym 4 nights a week.
Leave the weekends for my son, friends, family and of course GOLF...
I have not join the bowling league yet....need to get on it.
Just trying to stay busy and it helps my PMA and detachment.
I have to live my life to the fullest no matter what...

I talked to my W several times a week now, and we keep it friendly. We even joke a bit sometimes.
Of course, the OM is still in the picture, so this is all I can offer at this point.
Actually she told me last night her current contract will end this month. She did sounds a little worry, I would too. I know she will running of $$ soon if she can't find a new contract.
I just validated her feelings and gave her some encouragement.
The old NW (fixer, rescuer) will express his worries in a heart beat and try to do whatever to help her.
Now I just step back and give her my vote of confident. I told her "You will figure out what you need to do, you always do."
She even said she will take a job anywhere. I hope she can find one back to Atlanta, but who knows....keep the expectation at zero. It is better this way.
If she running out of $, I don't think I will help her. I don't think she will ask anyway. She has too much pride.
I would just suggest son can stay with me while you are sorting out the financial matters.
This is the hard reality that she needs to face and experience.
After all this is her decision.

Got to stay busy and keep going...

NW626