Smurf I am so sorry that you have been hit sideways by this latest turn of events. I personally cannot imagine why any mother would allow (let alone encourage) thier beautiful daughter to disfigure themselves in this way. I do hope that eventually your D sees this and has these piercing removed.
By the way Happy New Year.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15