easy .. lie ! Mums are on a need to know basis only, especially MIL. If she doesnt need to know.. dont tell her! If H told her you're going to be there, he is obviously happy for you to see her. So, just make sure you have lots of topics of conversation or other 'gossip' (does she like a gossip??) that arent you and H or R related. Talk about his college stuff, all these flights, holidays you've been on, or the one coming up.. just deflect it girl!
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread