I'm very glad your h is coming to take you and your son to work. At least he's being "responsible" in one area. Do you have any idea what he does during the day while you are gone? Can you see anything he's done? Maybe he sleeps?

Yeah, I can just see me in a chat room! LOL! That's how he met the HO! I'd dearly love to know what he's up to. He's been reaching out a bit since 2005 (after my bil was killed). Why the man even shared w/me several weeks ago that he was stupid to purchase a townhouse w/stairs. He fell from the top landing to 2/3 down the steps. Sprained his back and he's black and blue. My thoughts were, after I laughed myself silly, too bad it didn't break his neck or let's hope it knocked some sense into him. That was 12/14. Hadn't heard from him since. But I do know this, if I communicate w/him via email, the phone calls at home, work and the movement of things at my home ceases. If I'm dim or dark for any length of time, he's back in full action. He's definitely one that is totally gone and will never be back to the real world.

Just thought I'd share w/you just how stubborn they can be to stay in the "pit".

Enjoy your evening.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.