[Confused_in_AZ]

When your MLC XW wants back? Right before Christmas, my XW emailed me saying that she had a Christmas card for me from friends of mine. Wanted to know if I wanted to get together for coffee and she could give it to me. Also offered to mail if I didn't want to meet her. I have not seen her since December 2007 and have only had very limited limited email exchanges since (maybe 6 total emails). We set a time but she had to reschedule. After waiting a few days, I told her to just go ahead and mail it. This past Saturday, she said she would and wished a Happy New Year.

Last night at 5:30 she sends me a text, asking if we could do coffee. She has more mail(???) and has issues with mailing things(???). I agree to meet. We meet from 8pm until 10:30, catching up on life and family. Hugged goodbye, and when walking to car, she asks another question about my family, trying to prolong the conversation.

We got the D almost 2.5 years ago. Not sure why she wanted to meet. Making sure the saftey net was still there….or checking to see where and who I was? The nice thing about last night was that she kept smiling. We really had a good time together. Not sure if that is due to comfort with each other or what.

This is was the first time in over 5 years that I have actually seen the woman that I married in front of me! Always thought that she was in MLC and think she is coming out of that tunnel. Not sure what I should do or not do? Do I ask her out? Help!?