M, I'm glad he showed up and did something on the car. I sure wish he'd get himself together.
I want to share something w/you because your nut is just as tough as the nut I'm divorced from. Last night, the x sent to my home email and work email addresses a "friend request from the x" for myYearbook.com. What the heck is that all about? This is the same type of url/chatrooms that my x was in when he met the HO years ago. Now, really, does he think I'm going to accept this invitation and chat w/him online when I can just drop him an email if the notion should ever strike me? Where is the logic in all of this? See, they are truly nuts.
Just thought I'd share a little tidbit about old Rip Van Winkle...he's waking up very slowly after 9 years, but it's too little too late and my million dollar question of the day is where is the HO/wife at?
I do hope you are doing okay.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.