H doesn't want me to EVER say anything to the kids about his decisions to: 1) have an affair 2) his decision to walk out on us 3) his decision to file for a D
because
if I did, I wouldn't be thinking of the best interest of the children!!
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home