He stayed out all night again at Tom's or wherever
He has another panic attack thing and says he can't do this, goes back to stay at his parents or Tom's.
If he leaves again, he stays gone. If he melts down again about how hard it is to do this, he is gone.
If he acts like my husband/partner/friend, then we will take it one day at a time and see how it goes.
I just had to jump off the crazy train and live life at this point. It has been passing me by while I think, overthink, plan, overplan, etc etc... I have no desire to file right now b/c I am ready for a break from thinking about that crap. Just want to do my thing!
BobbiJo ...Hi Sis
After reading your boundaries I am very proud of you for one thing. Knowing and going through this walk together with you and so many other's on here is rewarding in so many ways. Real hard to put into words IMO. But I guess the best words to use are that Michelle WD really provides an incredible forum on here for all of us to further ourselves or to just have something to grasp onto to keep us from falling down a well of despair. Anyway ..thank you Michelle for this gift that we all utilize to steady and improve ourselves. Now off of that and back to where I was headed prior to digressing.
I was just curious as to whether or not you will be sharing those concise boundaries with H? Or do you intend on keeping them to yourself and see if he measures up to them unbeknownst to him?
My opinion on that and/or the pros/cons of it is not quite entirely formulated (might have to do with me still needing a bunch a sleep). But I was just curious about that.
Stay fixated on Christ our Redeemer and your #1 H!
