If you're happy, then I'm happy. I'm glad you are giving it another shot and things are going well. The fact that she was so mad and you had the big fight is great news; much better than a ho-hum, let's try retrouvaille. Keep in mind that some things won't change. She likely won't become someone that's all over you showering you with PT....but hopefully you'll meet in the middle.
That's all I ask for, Phoenix. In fact, like most high-drive's, I'd be thrilled with meeting somewhere LESS than the middle, so long as it's coupled with sincere effort, instead of just an "Well -- that's just the way I am!" that a lot of us get.