I would let the lawyer handle it as you stated above. If he is having second thoughts let him come to you. Maybe this is an eye opener for him and he is being pulled from the 'fog' as many refer to it on here when spouses are in lala land...

Hang in there...be strong...he will notice

Me35/H35
D16/SS14
M-1yr/known H 18yrs
1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35
2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21
Moved out 8/21/08
H filed D on 9/9/08

God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.