Maybe I should be in piecing part 5?

[Hope4us]

Good Point WDID. Give her an opportunity to step up before "the bomb"?

That's a really good idea. Have an R talk even though we're not supposed to and see where we're at. And then if she balks, I can tell her of my plans. Kind of give her the option.

I like it. Really like it. Thank you.

The way I'm seeing it now, my time line is some time around the end of Feb for this talk to happen. We've got a fun night out of town planned for the 17th and then a wedding to go to in mid-Feb, also out of town, so if those aren't a couple things that can stir feelings in her, I don't know what can.