Originally Posted By: Sugar and Spice
Originally Posted By: M from Tennessee

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I truly believe the opposite of love is not hate...its indifference.

I'm there sister..almost anyway..I don't hate her..I could just actually care less what she does, feels or thinks other than Caleighs stuff..


Not almost, there. If you don't care about how she feels or what she thinks other than Caleighs stuff, then you my friend are wading in the calming waters of indifference or "couldn't care less ville." Its a wonderful place to be. Looking forward to getting there myself one of these days.

Originally Posted By: M
from Tennessee]but that is neither here nor there now..


Her loss. Have a great day Mikey!;\)



Lookie Lookie..... 1st things first, it's not indifference. It's called the anger stage. Anger does not have to mean outward hostility. It can simply mean that you don't give a chit. That's part of anger as well Mike.

Kim, is a nutjob, we get that. However, her comments right now, while I believe them to simply be for your attention, may someday actually mean more to you.

In time forgiveness will come into your heart and you will lighten up a bit. I know the kind of man you are and find it hard to believe that you will be "indifferent" with her forever.

By the way, I think maybe you should go back and re read Gypsy"s posts to you, some of it actually makes a lot of sense dude......

When was your D final again???? Is it really that important to find the perfect woman right now? Nah...... try just having some fun dude......


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09